The Start of the Massage I will bring a music player, and play tantric music, which is designed to help create a perfect atmosphere. I will also turn the lights down low, so that it is dim, but that you can see me in the dim lighting. You will now be lying face down on the towel and I will begin by pouring some warm oil on your back, and tenderly rubbing it in. I will use both hands and sensually excite the receptors of your back. I will massage you shoulders, arms and your neck. This will continue for a short while, and then I will start to work her way down your body, and down your legs. This process is to ensure that you completely relaxed I will probably gently touch your genitals as I caresses your inner thighs and bottom, but the focus is not in that area just yet, only a touch.
I may then start to carry out a body to body massage. Not all masseuses do this, but when I do, it is very sensual and exciting. I will gently glide my breasts across your legs, your back, your arms and head. It is truly an amazing sensation. When I senses that you are ready, I will ask you to turn over and lie on your back. I will pour more warm oil on you, this time on your chest and arms, and gently massage the oil in. Then I will do the same on your legs and thighs. Again, I will continue the Tantric Massage, taking you deeper in to the Tantric experience. I may carry out the body to body contact, where my breasts glide across your body, and face, and my hair gently skimming across your body. I will sense when it is time for the final phase and that will be the Lingam Massage.
The Lingam Massage is the final focus of the Tantric. It is the focus of the energy and all that has been carried out so far, whereby the Lingam (penis) is massaged. I will draw down your foreskin, and pour some warm oil over the head of your lingam. I will then gently caress it, and glide my hand over your entire lingam and genitals. The sensation is out of this world. I will continue to work on the lingam, and I will sense when you are about to orgasm. If you are, I will back off, because I will try to bring you in and out of orgasmic state several times. This is known as “riding the wave”. Eventually, I will bring you to the point of orgasm, and I will not stop, and I will let you ejaculate, finishing off with the most amazing orgasm you may ever have had. It should be said, that an orgasm is not the goal of a Tantric Massage, but rather a bonus. However, it is rare for a man not to orgasm during the session. If however, you don’t orgasm that is ok too, because the entire process is to focus energies from within you, which have some rather beneficial health and emotional spin offs, together with general well being. A Tantric Massage is sheer delight. And eroticism of the highest standard.
When used as sexual stimulation, most men have reported stronger orgasms, achieved during the prostate massage and higher levels of sexual satisfaction. The prostate massage is slowly becoming an accepted practice and it could be performed by the therapist, who is using either a finger or a sex toy to stimulate the prostate gland. I will use rubber gloves when performing the prostate massage and usually lubricants, which makes the insertion of finger and toys easier and more enjoyable.
Body to Body Massage
The movements of massage create a sensation of serene happiness and internal joy in a gentle world that allows us to feel that the hands touching us invade us, possess us, fulfill us and recognise us form the deepest part our being. A massage is like a magical spell…the sensations cannot be explained, only experience There are various reported health benefits such as improved urine flow and ejaculation and reduced pain or swelling of the prostate gland.
It reduces stress – both emotional and physical Stimulates and soothes the skin and nervous system Eases muscle tension and removes toxins from the body Keeps your body flexible and supple Boosts vitality and well-being.
What is a sensual massage?
Sensual is a safe way to experience more health, comfort and pleasure in your body. It teaches you how to use intention, clear boundaries and choice to create a safe environment for your personal pleasure and empowerment. In sensual massage you learn how to use your breath and focus your awareness to increase sensations and deepen innate body well being.
Unlike therapeutic massages, sensual allows you to choose whether you are draped, nude or partially clothed on the table. You may elect to have your whole body massaged, including breasts and genitals, or not. You must clearly articulate your choices and give consent which exercises your personal expression of desires.
Although a sensual massage may include touching of the genitals and breasts, it is not to be confused with sexual massage. A sexual massage is about the expectation of receiving genital stimulation to sexually excite and result in sexual release. Rather, the intent of a sensual is about loosing expectations of any ‘result’ allowing you to feel and enjoy your body more in each moment.
In sensual massage there is no goal of orgasm. The goal is to fully explore techniques of breath and mind-focus to bring a timeless and treasured awareness of body joy. You are coached in techniques that allow you to experience being relaxed and energized simultaneously. You enjoy deep and prolonged states of suspension from ordinary awareness. Whole body massage promotes sexual health, wellbeing and wisdom.
The person giving a sensual massage is a teacher, an educator, and not an entertainer or actor. S/he teaches men, women and couples techniques of receiving that increase whole body ease, acceptance and pleasure. You lose the need ‘to go’ somewhere, perform, or ‘do’ anything.
What is a deep tissue massage?
A deep-tissue treatment is much like a Swedish massage, except it uses more force. Although many of the same touches are used, the movements involved in a deep-tissue treatment are generally slower and involve more pressure. The goal of a deep-tissue massage is to realign muscles and connective tissues by eliminating adhesions, or knots. Adhesions are areas of tight muscles that usually build up over time; they can cause chronic pain and inflammation and can limit mobility.
In a deep-tissue massage, adhesions are targeted and pressed, rolled, and kneaded until they are released. A therapist could use her arms, fingers, fists, palms, or knuckles to do this, and a good amount of pressure is always applied. The pressure and the focus on problem areas is why some people find deep-tissue massage to be uncomfortable.
Like most massages, a deep tissue treatment takes place on a table. Customers undress while the therapist is out of the room and lie down on their stomachs. A sheet is draped over the parts of the body not being worked on at all times, so complete nudity is not an issue. You are allowed to wear your underwear during the massage if it makes you more comfortable. If nudity is a big issue for you, you may want to consider other forms of massage that can be performed with clothes on. Thai, cranial, and reflexology are three such treatments.
What is a relaxing massage?
Relaxation massage is essentially the same as a gentle Swedish massage that uses smooth, gliding strokes. The primary purpose will be to help you relax, and the therapist will probably move at a slower pace and use light pressure. During a relaxation massage there is less emphasis on working out serious adhesions or knots in the muscle tissue and the therapist won’t push your pain limits in order to get the muscle to release. Sometimes people even fall asleep during a relaxation massage.
What is a aromatherapy massage?
Aromatherapy essential oils can be added to any style of massage. Usually, however, a treatment is called an “aromatherapy massage” when scents are added to the Swedish technique.
What is a sports massage?
This kind of massage is targeted to provide relief for sports-related injuries. It helps loosen tight muscles and can help with rehabilitation. You don’t need to be an athlete to benefit from a sports massage, however. If you have pain related to some kind of activity, this could be the kind of massage for you.
Hot Stone Massage
Stone massage is one of the newer styles in the spa world, and it’s quickly become very popular. In this technique, warm stones are placed at pressure points along the back. Once they’re in place, the therapist gently presses each stone deeper into the back, which releases tension with the spread of heat.